Author of this article is the Facebook Community Page Indian Adda
We see the Double standard of Indian society is observed when they torture the WOMEN to give birth to BOY. But, we can say that is the torture is done to hide the in-capabilities of MEN. This article is shared, as to clear a simple misconception regarding the GENDER during the birth process of a CHILD. As many of us will say the society is improving, still there are cases of torture are observed in under-developed areas of the country.
The lack of Sporting behavior in MEN for WOMEN, the mindset of Society as at the end the LADY is born to handle the kitchen after all. The weird love of Indians to check out the figure of the GIRL even they are fully covered. The most depressing dialogue is “Its girl’s fault.” The fault of being born, the Fault of Walking on Roads, the Fault of Talking to boys, The Fault of carrying Style Statement, the Fault of Trusting and leaving the home after marriage as to give birth to a BOY else she its her fault again.
But, in all these faults, Isn’t this shocking, that the Women itself stands against the other WOMEN, by keeping the Humanity at STAKE, cries when they give birth to a Girl. We are not saying this because we want to make this article interesting. The life experience of a girl child is filled with hate even before she takes her first Breath in the WORLD. Recently, We have encountered one of the incident when Indian Adda’s one of the admin shared the good new that his two cousins gave birth to the kids. One blessed with a baby Girl and other bless with a baby boy. But, the weird, yet hot topic in discussion between family members before their delivery was “Bas ladka ho jaye“. Really, is it the big deal to have a BOY, is it so, Why its never, people pray for, get blessed with a girl. But, during all this discussion the people forget, the simple science which decides the fact a girl or a boy will born.
The most disheartening part was when my mom said, the cousin who gave birth to GIRL, was crying. The reason was she was her second child and wanted a BOY this time. Phew, this was the time one of our admin’s mom shared her experience to him when she gave birth to his sister. She said, “I was happy when you were born, but I was a little upset when your sister came into the world.” It is shocking, as to how one can hate the part of her, which is growing into them for almost NINE months before coming into existence. But, it’s not their fault, they are conditioned as they only can give the birth to a BOY they will carry the family’s legacy. In the end mothers are mothers, we all know they regret, when they go to the extreme level of ANGER. They accept the fact, easily that the change with child is indeed the way of Life. But, sometimes is society makes it necessary for WOMEN to give birth to a BOY, as her husband’s family wants someone to carry the name of their family. The pressure is such built on them, that get threaten to be killed or left out, by saying the male can get some else who can give birth to a BOY. This is the most common fear of a LADY in INDIA.
But, still the truth remains the same. Indian Society and its hate for GIRL child-birth is still can be seen, the current ratio of girls over boys. Yes, the fact accepted that times are changing. People are now accepting the birth of GIRL. Still there are places in India, where girls are just bought as to whole family can get satisfaction. Even treated as the Maid, to be the Child hatchery. It’s not that all the people in the society have degraded the position of Women in INDIA. But, where the whole society fails is that, its the gene of MEN which decides that the born will be a MALE or a FEMALE child. Here, we would like to put some basic education facts that will enlighten you to the reason why father is responsible for the birth of a girl child.
This Science a student studies in its 10th standard biology. The basic funda of XY chromosome in men is the reason behind the birth of GIRL or BOY. There is the impact of family background, on the Gender of the child. But, that family background of MALE which decides the fact that he will be father of a GIRL or a BOY. So, this is the fucked up mentality which says the Mothers that they are not capable of giving birth to a BOY.
The science says if the X factor reacts the GIRL will take place and if the Y factor reacts which copulation the BOY gets the birth. Now, in this simple line, it can clearly be observed that the Women while giving birth to a CHILD is lending space to test the MAN’s capability. So, please here after please think of the double standard of our society, which is been used to hide the failure of MEN.
Yet, the hate for the GIRL is started in the Womb itself. The hate for the LIFE which ins’t yet seen the SUNShine. The generations are changing, yet in many families the rude beliefs and thoughts against the GIRL’S birth yet remains the same. One of the most unanswerable question, in NORTH Indian idiom: Am I to make pickles out of your so-and-sos, your precious ministers and chiefs? What good has their being in power ever done to any ordinary woman? How many rapes, dowry deaths, beatings, sexual harassment has it prevented? What has it ever done except to prove that a privileged few women can get status, wealth and power?
One can answer, why we have the difference between the SEX Ratio till now. The simple fact, which one can observe from the society is “The Double standard society, is So rude that, No, one wants girl to be born in their homes. Yet, they want them in BED, they want to see them NUDE, want to roam in the CITY, just for FUN.”
In the End, while concluding the Article, we just want to share that you can help alot to Women, for their better surviving. Still if you don’t want to do, please just stop creating difficulties for the LADIES, who are fearing to walk on streets alone after 6 O’Clock, irrespective of the city, its the same story atleast one of the any area have in each city of the Country.
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