We all, have seen women working in all sectors which are existing in today’s world. But, where we lack is accepting the fact that, women can create a better world altogether without any help of we “THE MEN”. I never thought, I would have given time to think of Women this way, before picking up this topic. Let’s admit it, Women can exist without men support, but Men cannot exist without Women. Not even for few seconds in this world. Somewhere or the other we all know, half of the things which sooth our lives are existing just because Women exist in this world.
Let’s go back to very first stage of our life, we get birth just because the Lady wants us to be in this world. It’s the lady who accepts to bear the pain to give birth, it’s her teaching due to which we get that gentle nature within us. I could say the nature is because of two reasons one is basic which every person uses in this world is “Ladki ki Tarah mat kar(Don’t be a pussy)” to address that fearing/seeking scope behavior of any person in this world. The other reason is her nature of her is “think before you talk”, which we generally find in women only. Ladies in this world still carry the dignity of their upbringing no matter how much the pressure they face in their lives. The reason they do this is, because of us the MEN, who carry that triple standard we want a lady to do all the stuff a Man do, then we change our behavior towards them because they did, then we start gossiping about them. NO, I am not blaming all the men, but there is majority of us who want women to carry the manly nature and when they start carrying that, this starts hurting the guys. So, stop underestimating women, because they are going to improve and they will be more effecting while carrying that behavior of Leading.
The title says its underestimated gender because it’s she who teaches both how to be a man and how to be a woman in this world. But, it’s always men dominate the world, the reason never understood. But, one thing which we have to agree with, a Woman who is a housewife can be a full-time worker and how will be really good at her work. But, a Man can never be at home, doing domestic work as-well-as his full-time work. He just can’t do it. Not, because he never made food or dusted home. But, because he will never be able to maintain that discipline and balance between what a lady can maintain. She is a superhero GOD has created, who can do her work and which can also point out where one is facing the problem in dealing with the life. A better accountant/manager/teacher at any age of her life she is. She can never think one-sidedly. But, where her recognition is lost is when she is dealing with all this, many times men aren’t able to stand with her qualities. It’s she, who will push men to be what they are good at, but when men get recognition, they many times forget who told them to choose this way of life. If a lady asks for help, it’s not because she can’t do it, that’s because she wants to know if you can do it.
The other thing where today’s men have to improve with is keep Women at the same level. Start thinking that they are Human first. They are in this world because they can do all the things what you can do. Even better may be. They don’t seek recognition, they just seek quality of work. They teach the world, they feed the world, they keep alive the emotions, they make this world beautiful and colourful. So, it’s not necessary to be close to a lady to give her respect and space. That always needs a good mind to be happy with her. Women are the one, who can be artists at the same time a corporate worker. And she knows how to maintain both the position very nicely. They know where to maintain the line and they know where leave that bar to help others. But, we the men always took their nature in the wrong way. If a lady other than your relatives pushes you to do what you are good at, you start thinking she giving you the line to hit her. But, Men have never thought to give it the try that they are the once who can fight for what is good for their fight, and she deserves the same response not that the thought of she needs a man for relation. We men have to get out of that thinking, because admit it, if she really wants you to be her Man, she will ask you directly, she will never fall back in asking.
So, respect every Lady around, give them unconditional friendship, be it in any way just never end up with the thought that if she is nice to you she needs you to be her man, there are many things in life other than intimacy which needs a thought.
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