Yea, time is changing, Girls today are living freely in the Society. Yet, Its just they many times are taught to avoid to be talkative in the world Outside. And its not, like Girls needs an introduction to their thoughts. Most of the time, the conditions in which they are born and grown up, doesn’t allow them to think Out of the Box or say out of the league things. The reason behind they should talk less is they belong to an Orthodox family and they don’t have the right to be FRANK to the society.
But, when it needs, Girls actually needs to stand, and stop making the comfort zone for the people. You should see dreams often, Not to get a JOB, but to create jobs for others. The people aren’t their to help you out every-time, and you aren’t have to be pleasing to every other person who meets you.
1. Start thinking to be entrepreneur
The art of Leading, is just what this courage of Entrepreneurship needs. Leading to talk, to direct, to be creative at work, and to be connected. Being a girl, this dream isn’t too hard to turn into reality. Not, because people will surly listen to you(which they will actually do.). But, because using the resources efficiently and exactly where is what you can imitate even after being successful.
2. Don’t always get teased, sometimes give them an answer
A new friend, met, observed any of your daily habit and started mocking. It isn’t bad at all. But, sometimes you should do the same. Not, to take revenge. But, to have fun, to be heard that you can talk too. Its about the pissing game. Its about how much you can be creative funnier than the others around you.
3. Fake the Mastery, as to avoid the need of Dependency
Yea, we all sometimes suck at new things. Any new technology, new assignment, or anything new we come across. It doesn’t mean, you need learn things in one day. Tolerate, your No knowledge time about the things, till the time you actually master that thing. Sometimes, Its fun doing wrong, by ourselves.
4. Start taking stand for things you don’t support, show the limits to over-talkative people
Yea, its not at all necessary to hear all the person talking shit. And you are listening to them just because, you set with them all the time. Sometimes you should and have to show the Finger on the Mouth, time to the people, who talk much more than they should. Anyone, who talk vulgar, senseless. Its good to show people that you understand the double meaning jokes and that needs to stop as its not so funny.
5. Stop being MAD for your ‘LOVE’
Its not, every time your boy says the correct words for you. Sometimes you need to put yourself above than him either. You can hide to your friends or close ones to be with HIM. So, you should show him, that it isn’t always him who can built pressure to stop you for doing what you have started by yourself. Stop pampering your love, when they use the tool of Anger on you. It isn’t him who has to live your life. Its always you who have to be responsible for your life choices not HIM.
6. Being single
Yea, many be at peace, by being single. But, many of the girls feels for the support after they encountered a relationship which didn’t worked out. Though, its a human tendency of seeking support when you move out of the house. But, not just die for the people, you barely know from any other friend or from the newly joined Office or anything like that. You are the person who made your life till now. And only you exactly know where you want to go with this life. Being Single, will more help you to concentrate on goals.
7. Be rude
Being Rude, is the most required part of the life. You have to be rude, if you don’t like the behavior of the surrounding. Saying NO, to things is required for many times in life. And there is nothing to be ashamed of it. You don’t like the thing. You should say no. No matter what, others think. Because the world is full of perceptions, reality is what you want to make others believe.
8. Always learn self defense
Really needed. They way people turn their eyes and mind in the world around. Every girl should be ready to defend herself, It can be verbally and physically. Both, are the weapons of destruction and saviours. This doesn’t mean, you have to talk the things you haven’t. But, you should know where the other person can take the advantage. So, always keep yourself ready for self defense.
9. Start being frank to the one’s who always do lecturing
Yup you read it correct. I feel sorry to say this, but the best examples are the male teachers themselves do this kind of thing. Talking unnecessary, talking shit, out of context. Still girls listens to them as if they are giving them lessons for better exams. But, don’t forget the lessons try to create are way out of the need for that time. So, be free to the people to give answers as to not to give away your time to these kind of low graded things happening around.
10. Start observing the art around, because you are born art lovers
Not to forget, your use of color is the best thing proves that you people will do great justice to ART. Many of you may be writer or painter or may be designers. But, even a little girl knows the use of color, which proves you people doesn’t need any special training to give importance to ART around. Yet, the laziness may not allow you to spend time on these things. Still whenever you feel alone or getting something new to life, try some ART like drawing, painting, singing, dancing anything you feel comfort with.
11. Don’t get flat on Looks
A man looks good, yes because he spent time on it. But, it does mandated that you have to get flat for the guys, even in talks. It all start with a talk, which can go to a higher level just because you shown the interest. The guy shown you the fake side of his till the time you get along with him. That side of his may be real for sometime. But, remember MAY BE. Which can turn heads.
12. Don’t just decide your Attraction as LOVE, if you like their talks at work
Don’t go on the talks. Even he is mature, what you were looking for. No, maturity is not the signal that you will be happy with HIM. Its not what is your thought is. Its just the way you chosen him. Impressed by his talks at work, had some message and within a month or less he will your life. The faster you fall in love, the earlier you will face the pain of reality. Love, but untill you get all your thoughts clear.
13. Start using Google at work
Now, this is for the girls who behaves like technologically challenged. You need to learn this fact, if you are seeking information for any organisation, go for that organisation’s website to gather some information. In the same way, want to search any product or any specification yes, Google can help you to get some points which you may not know before.
14. Don’t seek support to get out of depression
Depression, from break up, fight or anything which bother’s your mood. Don’t seek support to get out of it. Support can paralyze your emotional immunity. It will ask you get support from the outer world again and again. This lead to more causes of depression and mood spoil.
15. Don’t trust every other person, just because the third person
Trust is sometimes takes years to built. And many times I have observed, girls discuss things with the friends of friends. Its not a problem in sharing. But, the question is, do you really lack the people to share with. That you chosen friends of friends to share or discuss the issues which may be of his/her concern at all. Yet, Girls will be girls in this situation.
16. Be free to talk, Cause you have the leverage of being a Female
People will listen to all who talk sense. But, you being a female, is leveraged with the part that you will talk sense. No matter what, people will listen to you. Try to understand you. All this without any extra effort of being loud for the things.
17. Start living your life the way you dream
Don’t let your parents, studies and jobs decide your destiny. Still parents trust on ONLINE matrimony than you. So, design your future, gather courage to demand what you want in life. Never regret of what choices you make, just stick to it.
18. Be free to express emotions
Express your emotions. But, don’t let others to make use of your sharing. You know your limit. But, you also know when you need someone to share the Emotional You. Its not bad at all. Yet, it needs a trusty person to be with. So, be careful while choosing a person, But, seriously be free to be Emotion Full.